So fucking mad !!!!
This is a copy of the email I wrote to my ex a few minutes ago. After you read it you will understand WHY I wrote it, and what it is like dealing with her.
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Your recent action when I came to pick up Naomi indicated your true level of flexibility and cooperation to me. I feel I had to write this to get it off my chest.
I arrived 20 minutes before my scheduled 6pm pickup time to pick up Naomi, and had called THREE times within the prior hour to contact you to see if you were home. You answered none of the calls. I am sure my phone records will back this up. Resigned to the fact that you weren't home, I decided to wait outside your house until you 'arrived home' which was fine by me as I was early. Five minutes after I was waiting for you to arrive, you appeared from the front door with Naomi (who had apparently spotted me from the window) and you were very pissed off. Your cell phone was where? Obviously you were just not bothering to answer it as I know it works in your house. Let me guess....your "speaker was turned down" or "it was charging". Those seem to be the standard excuses when you don't answer normally to stop me talking to Naomi.
Your next comment nearly made me sick to my stomach. You looked me striaght in the eye, and you asked, with that indignant tone of voice that you obviously inherited, if I was going to bring Naomi back 15 minutes early on Sunday to make up taking her early!!! How dare you! Your continued failure to encourage the father/daughter relationship is unbelievable. I cannot believe that you are so petty, so pathetic, and so fucking selfish that you could not grant me 15 minutes extra time with Naomi (which I had tried so hard to get, but was not even expecting to have this afternoon) that you tried to take it away from the end of my allotted time.
Your life must truely be pathetic since our divorce. Dr Loveland clearly stated you were still grieving over the loss of the marriage (which your actions indicate is soooo true, apparently), but your continued attempts to try and hinder my relationship with Naomi to the point that you need to argue over the number of fucking MINUTES that I have her, is an all time low even for you.
You sicken me. I was going to bring the letter to you to help you out as you stated your attorney is useless, but I think my kindness and generosity in this matter would be better served through the correct channels. You preach harmony and suggest mediation when we are in court together when you come across as soooo reasonable and a "poor single mother" who has been dealt a bad hand. I wish a judge could see you for what you truely are. Dr Loveland obviously did. He hit the nail on the head. This was you in a nutshell.
A lot of your actions have disappointed me, Abigail, but I cannot tell you the new level of disppointment inside me after listening to you talk this afternoon. You can print this out for court if you like as I would love to talk about it in front of a judge. I realize that you will never be any more flexible than this in the future. I only hope and pray that Naomi picks up your good traits...I assume you still have some left.
Thank you for the school information. It will be used.
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